SHE Likes Him, Too…
November 30th, 2007
So you like this guy…a lot. You’ve been telling all of your girlfriends about him. You’ve talked various times about how cute you think he is and all of the little things that he does to flirt with you. Your friends are trying to get the two of you together…of course! They’re your friends, after all. But then one day something changes: She tells you she is sorry but she likes him, too. Who is she? Well…your supposed friend.
So what do you do now? It’s not fair, is it? You claimed your stakes first with him. Where does she get off thinking that she can have a crush on him, too? I mean, she could have a crush on ANYone else. It really makes you feel like she’s being a bad friend and totally disregarding your feelings, right?
Well, for as right as you are about this…you’re still kind of wrong. Of course this is a nasty thing for a friend to do…but like I’ve said…you can’t always control who you like. So if she really does genuinely like him too…she’s complimenting your taste in guys at least! Keep in mind that if she really means it…she can’t help it as much as you can’t help it.
Trying to figure out which one of you two he likes better will just complicate the whole situation, as well. It will really mess with your emotions and it’s not a very comfortable place to be. In the best case scenario-he doesn’t like either of you. This way you don’t end up messing up your friendship over a guy. In the worst case scenario-he chooses her. Now you’re going to have to deal with staying friends with her even though she’s dating the guy that you like…that you liked FIRST. This can be really tough!
However, if your friend was sincere and honest with you, that’s all you can really expect from a friend. Losing a friend over a guy is NEVER EVER worth it, so do everything that you can to avoid confrontation about this issue. In reality…this simply happens sometimes. Don’t get dramatic if you can help it…just accept it and move on. I know that it’s hard, but it is, after all, the best thing for you to do.
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ooohhh great first one here too???!!!! lets get it over with!!!! =( THIS ARTICAL IS TOTALY RIGHT, BUT I HAVE ONE QUESTION, WHAT IF YOU BOTH LIKE HIM AND HE AND HIS BUD BOTH LIKE YOU?? YOU DONT WHANT TO HURT ANYONES FEELINGS WHAT DO I DO!???????
Ummmmmm…. yah it’s emmo girl speaking and like so what if ur best friend likes him… I like this one dude my friend like and she say she doesn’t like him( yah right) but we are still friends. I mean y should a boy break a great friendship… and it’s really cold shiver shiver
you should try to go out with them both and see who is nicer and you like more.
Hi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
good idea thanx!!!
your welcome
do u like me
STOP ASKING THAT!!! i’m sorry, but everywhere i see your comment and it is always under ~nicole~’s and you always have “do you like me?” *takes deep breath* sorry holly
wow intense gracie. u know that rizza feels the same way?
hey wat bout me lol lik two boys lik me right now i need help wat do i do cas i lik them both but i dnt want to hurt anyoners feelings ppl help me soon please!!!!!
same thing i said to emma*
oh well thanx for telling me to look thanx so much nicole!!!!!!
your welcome.
u have smoe good advice
woops idvice
you spelled it right the first time
How weird because i’m going through this problem with my crush. My friend sat next to him last year and i kept seeing them giggiling together. GIRL WAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol
OKAY IF ANYONE HAS A ???? THE NAME IS emma*
I know it’s quite funny because it turned out they used to go out with each other and they were just tryin 2 get along how funny
she shod just go out with tem bowth!!!!
DUH!!!
lol!
du u kow wat im thinkin’?
*POOF* (hasleft)
Okaii can anyone work this one out??
J= me
H= BF4lyf
M= other bff
k=other bff
L=old bff
S= ex freind
B= boyfreind
H: did u call B after
J: yeah He admited he cheated
H: so L was right
J: yh i dont wanna talk bout it whens M getting here
H: soon
*phone rings*
J: hello
B: Its me
J: Who?
B: bradly
J: oh
*silence*
B: Look I know it sounds bad but Soph….
J: not sophia
*Silence*
J: again?
B: I love you babe
J: well answer….
B:……yes
J: slams phone down
*Hugs H*
Next day
M: so sophiayour ex-freind made out with your BF..who he is now dating behind your back…
K: shes so……
H: so what yo gonna do?
J: call him an end it then confron S
Lunch Time
*takes cell phone out*
*H M & K all listeing carefully*
J: this is gonna be short calls to chicargo are expensive
*CALLS S*
S: hello?
J: *TAKES DEEP BREATH*
Did you make out with B?
S: yeah and we dd more….
J:Like?
S: are you sure you want your little mind to know babe?
*HANGS UP*
*H M & K SPEECHLESS*
Man that happened 2 me and my friend we fought over it but then we said u know what y fight over sum guy there not worth ruining our friendship
these 2 guys liked me and i liked them both too…i didnt really know what to do. I ended up going out with one of them, and that was only because he asked me out first. I broke up with him about 2 weeks later! i realized that i liked the other guy more but i wouldnt have known that if i dodnt go out with that other guy…it was a very weird situation
any advice for this
I like this boy and he asked me out last sunday then monday we had a big party at school. He started to dance and chat with me until my bff came. He started making comments about how nice she looked. then they walked off together. then on tuesday the last day (half day @ school) my bff told me how they wer goin out and how sweet he was. wen i brought it up he just ignored it and went and sat by her again. i call and text and im and everything but he just says, hold on im talkin 2 aly(my bff). i dont know wat 2 do
any tips?
i know what to do,serve him right.try to make him mad by teasing him so he shouts @ you then go off crying then tell on him and he’ll probably get mad and shout @ you again then go and complain to your mom so she says something to his mom and the teacher.
it would definatly serve him right!
but you dont have to do it if you dont want to.
nope. like none of my friends like mine. HAHAHAHA!!! he’s mine! lol jk
i call and text and im and everything but he just says,
hold on im talkin 2 my bff.i don’t know wat 2 do any tips